The main thing I wanted to acheve with Tylor was to bring him up as normal as possible yes we had lots of hospitals and as time passed sergerys ,but through it all ,fun and laughter had to be at the top ,as Tylor grew this did get hard for me when he had to deal with all his problems and as he realised he was not the same but given the chance I would do exactly the same again ,anyway back to having fun one Xmas nanny was being nanny complaining about putting her tree up something she has always done ,soon sorted with Tylor and Leah putting up her tree and lights with her,well this year I decided we would sneek up in to her back garden with Tylor and armed with a bag full of decks we decorated a tree in her back garden ,Tylor was so excited thinking we could get in to trouble he was only 3-4 and this was a great way of showing him my sense of humour and I'm glad to say nanny while a little confused soon saw the funny side ,and Tylor I must say had a wicked sense of humour